Thursday, August 25, 2011
Well, while I wrote my last post on birthing soundtracks I was going into labour! It was very surreal.
Little Elidi arrived in super quick time days before her due date on Saturday evening!
Our big girl spent that night with her treasured Nana and Poppa. While Nana and Poppa were none the wiser - just thought we were tired and their grand daughter wanted to stay over - KB knew otherwise. Her Dad even heard her say to Nana "Mama's at home doing yoga". That was her interpretation of witnessing a contraction in process and her Mumma breathing through it.
We chose not to share our news of Elidi's arrival to the world until her big sister had met her. On Sunday morning when her Daddy picked her up he showed her photos of her new sister. Even the fact that she really had a sister was surreal to me as KB had spent the last month talking about her baby sister (and none of us knew the gender of our baby).
By the time she arrived at the hospital she was ecstatic and crawled over Mum to the bassinet to see her sister and all of this came out:
"Aw my sister" "Hello Babe" "My baby sister I love you" and then straight into singing her her favourite lullaby "Chi baba"
It was such a tender moment that while I watched and marveled at how beautiful and loving my girl is her Daddy shed many proud tears.
Elidi is five days old today and as in her names definition "Gift of the sun" she is a true little gift - another beautiful daughter for Mum and Dad, and a sister for KB.
I hope their relationship as sisters is one full of rich memories, fond times, interesting challenges and lots of love as my relationship with my sister has and continues to be.
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Music plays a big role in our family. Its a mood changer, a motivator, a memory trigger and moment capturer!
During our first pregnancy with our daughter a friend of mine and my partner spent their time coming up with a birthing soundtrack. It featured songs such as Salt'n'Pepper "Push it", Johnny Cash "Burning Ring of Fire", and the song "It started with a kiss" - who sings that?
My pick for the birthing room was Europe's "Final Countdown" - I liked the big sound, slow build up and victorious conclusion. Of course using this song never eventuated, in fact no music was, our daughter arrived reasonably quick. I must say that I did think of songs during labour.
This morning I had some me time and while out on the road cranking the Rock I heard Bon Jovi's "Living on a Prayer" and thought that would be another great song to give birth too!
I would love you to add to the sound track for giving birth to... did you use music, do you have a song that is in your opinion the one for the "event"? Let me know and may be we will finally put the sound track together.
We have five days til due date so we are on the "Final Countdown"!!
Thursday, August 18, 2011
To my Gorgeous Big Girl,
Before you become a big sister I want you to know how much I love you and how much richness you have bought to my life.
Since your presence in the world in my tummy you have been a treasure to us. First as a secret which Dad and I did not want to share, then as a taonga to all who knew you were on your way.
Before you became a part of Mummy's life I did not realise how much you would teach me. From you I learnt to listen better, be calm, relinquish control and let you lead and grow as you needed to.
Daddy and I grow to love you more and more each day. You have a huge heart, an amazing brain and caring nature. Your zest for life is infectious and we marvel at all that you observe and the connections about life that you make.
You have been very in tune with Mummy's growing tummy and the soon to arrive baby we will all love together. To "Rainbow Chocolate" you will be an awesome big sister. Becoming a big sister is exciting and you will always be a big sister. Too, you will always be Kaea, our big girl. You will always be you and we want you to be who you are, always. As a big sister you will be amazing - as a big sister myself I know what a privilege it is and sometimes what a challenge it can be. I think if you listen, love and empower then you are doing great.
Thank you for being such a supportive, caring and beautiful part of my life.
Love you so much and always will KB,
from your Mumma xx